Marriage

In the past few weeks, the owner of my company has made comments publicly about getting me married at least three times. They have all been in jest -- I think -- but I wonder if at least part of the reason I'm not married is because of my job. I don't know if I could do the job that I do if I was married. I've said many times, I don't know how people are able to make it work. I have to say, those who do stay married are the exception.

I honestly think that my job cost me two relationships. I'm a firm believer in fate, and what will happen will happen, but I'm fairly certain if it wasn't for my job- and my dedication to doing a good job, I probably would be married now. That said, both of those women I met because of my job, so....

(Un)Fortunately, I can't really half -ass things. It's not in my nature. Because of that, I get enveloped in work and it gets to be to much. One of these days when the time is right, I'll get married. I don't understand what all the peer pressure to get married is though.

A perfect example of that would be J. She's getting married in a few weeks to a nice guy she met while traveling overseas with her mother. I've met him a few times and wish them all the best. I was invited to the wedding, unfortunately, I won't be able to attend the wedding because you guessed it- work. I had a dilemma about going anyway- If I should go with a guest or not. I'm not dating anyone, but at the same time, I would know very few people if anyone other than the bride and groom. I sent my regrets and a nice gift. She understands. I insisted that I get to see pictures of the wedding though, in particular of her in a dress. I'm still a bit surprised that she's getting married because she was always so anti-marriage. I guess people change.